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New here, just wanna talk about your experience

It is not recommended that you pursue it unless you're into it, yourself. Tends to just make you unhappy if it isn't your schtick on some level.

Feeders can always walk away, and feedees/gainers are stuck with the consequences of their actions, still, if they do. It's not a fair dynamic. So don't capitulate on it as a demand unless you actually want it.
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